Being a new mom has many rewards and many challenges. There is the adjustment of caring for your new little one, as well as getting used to what your body is doing after birth. Babies are very demanding, and you will be losing a lot of sleep. There are things that you need to do for yourself in order to maintain your sanity. For instance, when someone offers to help, take them up on it. New moms need help, it is just how it is. You are tired, your body is healing, your baby is demanding, and on top of all of that, there are other things to deal with like making meals, housework, and errands.
So how do you manage all of the changes? First, just take things in stride. If the laundry has to wait, or the errands are a week overdue it isn’t the end of the world. Before having your baby, ask friends and family to help with meals for the first week. This will help exponentially, as the stress of just feeding you and your family is eliminated. This also is a big help because you will be exhausted the first week. The second thing that can help you, is to sleep as much as possible. The trick is to sleep when the baby sleeps. It helps to put you on the same schedule as your new little one, and alleviate some of the stress that comes with exhaustion.
Lastly, remember that your body is going through a lot at this time. Whether you choose to breast feed or not, your body is preparing for it, and there is a lot of tenderness that accompanies that change. Your abdominal area needs time to recuperate. Remember, what took nine months to expand won’t go back down overnight. Some experts say that it can take up to a year for your body to return back to its pre-pregnancy shape.



