Choosing a Daycare

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One of the hardest things you may experience as a new mother is letting someone else take care of your baby. While this may be necessary due to work or other reasons, it doesn’t make it any easier. Choosing a daycare provider can be easier to deal with if you know a few things to look for.

The first thing to consider when choosing a daycare provider is to make sure that you find out their child to staff ratio. You want to be sure your child is getting the attention they need and that cannot be done if there aren’t enough staff members. Most states will require a ratio guideline that has to be adhered to and you can find out what that is by contacting the Child Services department in your state.

You will also want to find out how discipline is handled. You will most certainly have your own ideas of how this is to be taken care of so you’ll want to know that the daycare provider is on board with what you will and will not allow. Find out the daycare’s policy and what they consider proper punishment, if any.

Last but not least, be sure that you are aware of how things are handled when it comes to illness, medicine dispensing and emergencies. All of these issues should be addressed so that you know exactly what the protocol is for each situtation.

While choosing a daycare may not be what you want to have to do, finding a daycare that shares your own beliefs can be easier if you find out the answer to these questions.

Helping Your Baby Sleep

Did you know that babies sleep before birth? I’m sure you did. But, the environment in which they are used to sleeping changes drastically at birth. Instead of being cuddled in a nice, warm, cozy womb, they suddenly find themselves in a brightly lit, noisy, confusing world. No wonder babies can have trouble sleeping; they don’t know where they are.

The easiest way to help a baby sleep is to try and give them an environment that’s as close to the one in which they have been comfortable for the last nine months. So, what does that environment include? Well, we know it’s warm, dark and moves around while they are sleeping; we know that they can’t move a whole lot; and we know that the thing they hear the most is their mother’s heartbeat. Oh, one more thing, they are used to being in an environment where they are in contact with another human being twenty-four/seven.

Okay, so how do we re-create that environment? Actually, a lot of thought has been put into that question by companies that manufacture clothes, furniture and other products for babies. There are a myriad of products available on the market, to help you help your baby sleep well.

With our children, we’ve found two things that were very helpful. The first is to have the baby sleep in something that is moving. I don’t know how many baby swings we went through, but I’m pretty sure we had more swings than we had kids. My favorite one had a bassinette to start out with for the baby and a seat for when they got a little bigger. All we had to do is put our children into the seat, and it would lull them to sleep.

The other product that helped a lot was one of those teddy bears which play a recording of the sounds from the mother’s womb. That always seemed to comfort our babies, helping them get to sleep. Between the two of these products, we had a lot of peaceful time with babies asleep.